Should I or Should I not....

People come to me on a daily basis asking me if they should hold on to a relationship that is not working for them, So you can hold onto something that wants to go. You can only love what you got while you have it. If a relationship breaks up, it doesn't mean "you break down". You just may need to fix what is broken. Turn that pain and disappointment around. Your life lesson is right in front of you. Use all of your strength and courage to start a new. A new you, a better you, a smarter and wiser self that knows its own wants and needs. Its time for you..fight for what you want. A strong and self independent person is very attractive...! and no matter what anyone else says, your decision is your own.. There are 3 sides to every tale... take gossip for what its worth and "who' it came from. No explanation, just move on. You've got the right idea and you'll be just fine......